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Wednesday, September 03, 2008

Chaptzem Exclusive - Inside the mind of a self-admitted convicted child molester 

The following information regarding a convicted Heimishe child molester who was recently sentenced to seven years in prison through guilt by his own admission, was obtained through an exclusive interview by a Chaptzem reporter.

The perpetrator is a Heimishe man in his fifties with a wife and family. He owns his own home and rents an apartment to tenants. The victim is a Heimishe eight year-old innocent little girl. She is one of the children living in his house, one of his tenants’ kids. She had visited his home many times before and would occasionally hang around with his children. He says he loves her and admits that he hugged and kissed her often. One day he crossed the line and yet saw nothing wrong with what he had done.

The man was taking a shower while the young girl was at his home. The bathroom door was unlocked and she walked in. He was just getting out of the shower and she saw him completely undressed. He explained to her what she was seeing and invited her to familiarize herself. The rest of what transpired is now court record and will be left to your imagination.

The girl later went home and told her parents what had happened. When confronted by the little girl’s parents the man explained that he felt that he had done the right thing as to avoid traumatizing the child and that she would be better off this way later in life. The parents called the Police, had the man arrested and got an order of protection put in place for the girl’s safety, effectively barring the perpetrator from entering his home since they lived in the same structure.

The man posted bail and was on his way back home, completely ignoring the Judge’s order of protection. The man walked up to his home and saw the little girl that he had molested sitting on the steps. He walked up to her, gave her a big hug and a kiss and told her that he forgave her and still loved her. The parents once again called the Police and had the man arrested for violating the order of protection. The man was sentenced to thirty days at Riker’s Island for the violation.

The man served his thirty day sentence and is now staying somewhere else for fear of being jailed again. The man had his day in court for the molestation charges and admitted his guilt to the Judge on every charge. When asked by the Judge if he would do it again if he were to be freed, he clearly and unequivocally said yes. He explained in all earnest that he felt that he had done the right thing given the situation and would do the exact same again. The Judge wisely threw the book at him and gave him seven years in prison. Though only a fraction of what he deserves, nevertheless, seven years that he will be away from children. Seven years that he won’t hurt another innocent child. Seven years that children will be able to hold on to their innocence without this man to take it away from them.

You see dear readers, child molesters are sick and dangerous. There is only one way to deal with child molesters and that is to lock them up so that they never get close to children again. Don’t believe that they can heal or get better, it does not happen. There is no place in a Yeshivah, a Shul, or in our community for a child molester. The pain and suffering that a child molester inflicts on a child within even one moment causes unbearable shame and pain that lasts them a lifetime. There is no place for rachmunis when it comes to someone that molests children. As Chaza”l say, “Kol hameracheim al achzorim, sofo sheyisachzeir al rachmonim”. If you feel rachmunis for the child molester you end up being an achzer to the innocent children. It is about time that children should be protected and not betrayed by their own Rebbe, neighbor or man in Shul. “Ubiartah harah m’kirbecha.” Let’s take out the trash!

Comments:
sorry to say but he will not do a full seven years in NYS as long as you do what is called good time in jail and stay out of trouble he will only do 10 months out of each year.

 

Chaptzem:
This guy is not a pedophile or molestor, he is a bit off the wall,I know the case and it's very sad.
Using this case as an example of real molestors is doing those victims a terrible disservice.

 

This Guy is clearly slow , somehing is very wrong with the guy. .

 

slow or not he should rot in jail
if you dont think so, let him babysit youre kids

 

"The rest of what transpired" ?????

That I have know Idea what that means...

But as a person who has nothing to do with this case I have to wonder what should a man do if a little girl walks in on him naked???

My guess would be to kick her out and tell the girls parents what transpired in hope they can figure what would be best for the child. What more can really be done? Again I dont know what actually transpired after she walked in but going according to the article???
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I guess I am just sitting here wondering how would other men respond if someone little madilah walked in on them naked???? Lets face it kids walk around houses all the time some times door are not always locked... or sometime broken... This is not such a far fetched scenario. SO I RAISE AN OPEN QUESTION WHAT SHOULD A MAN DO IF A GIRL WALKS IN ON HIM NAKED.

 

i know him extremely well and i have been involved with this case hundreds of hours and i would be very happy if he would babysit my case ,this case is more about extoetion than anything else

 

i hope they at least stopped paying rent to him

 

To poster 8:34pm

Are you for REAL?
The answer to your what if question is... turn around and walk
away.
This guy is a molestor in the
making.... even if he "slow" he
needs to be in prison for a long
time.

 

Why is he addressed as HEIMISH? Is it because he eats chulent & kugel or because he is committed to halachic Judaism?

 

to poster 1:24 am belive me if you got to know as well as i did you would be very happy to have him babysit your child

 

what's wrong here, you are over reacting he did not torture a cat nor lock up a dog in a car why the big fuss

 

no, this guy is not only a molester, he is totally off his rocker! He does'nt belong in prison, he belongs in a mental institution for the criminally insane!!

 

If he is a husband, father, homeowner and landlord, I would venture to say he is more sane than not. Making excuses just raises more flags. Where was his wife in all this, and has he done anything to his own children?

 

I'm all for executing child molesters, but this is not in the same league.

The most important thing is not to create a traumatic episode for the child.

On the spur of the moment, keeping low tones and just quickly explaining is not the worst thing he could have done.

Perhaps some of you feel he should have started screaming at the top of his voice when she walked in?

I'll tell you what. If I grew up in a house where my mother was bald half the time, or a house where it was explained to me, as a little girl, that a woman needs to cover her plain hair with a beautiful, $1,000 hair wig when she goes outside because a woman is not supposed to show her hair to outsiders, I'd grow up a little schizoid.

 

I am puzzled about this- 7 years!
That is an awfully long time for saying stupid things to a judge.
The 30 days he served sounds about right- but 7 years is what murderers get!

 

to 1:38 am,you are 100% correct,this whole case is a traversty of justice,being that he is feeble minded they made him a "sueir lazazal",from one small incident which was completly harmless and insignificant they blew it up to a major crime ,being that he is so stupid and gullible,and being that the real molesters they cant convict because they are not feeble minded as this guy is,they hold him up as a trophy,and the worst thing is that our so called liasion in the da's office HANNA WHITE ,has become ,over the years very dangerous and harmful to us, developing a KAPO mentality "rachmuna litzlon",from different experiences with her and my discussions with non frum lawyers i have come to the realization that its best to keep away from her,she only makes things worse,dont fall into the trap ,that being that she is frum she will help you, the opposite is much more likely to occur

 

This definitely is a very sad event. However, if you look into this, it is only a small rock in the sea! This is a major issue, that must be dealt with NOW--as if not, it will just get worse. If I'm not mistaken it is mentioned in the nshei newsletter about a year or so ago......it is alot of the upbringing that abstaining from things does to you

 

I'll tell you what bothers me in this story. Most people who have enough means to rent out apartments don't only have one bathroom. They usually have a master bathroom, or just a second bathroom in the bedroom area. Why then, was he naked in the bathroom that this little girl would use - the "guest" bathroom? And why was the door not locked? I think it's possible that he was waiting for her. There may be more to this story than we know - we don't have to believe his version of the events you know.

The other thing that bothers me is this. How would a NORMAL man react to being walked in on by a neighbor's daughter? Most men would be embarrassed and grab a towel to hide3 themselves - not give the girl an introduction to his anatomy. I think that the truth of why he got seven years must be within the court documents which delineate exactly what he admitted to doing to this little girl, as chaptzem said: "The rest of what transpired is now court record and will be left to your imagination."

 

i happen to know this story from the inside and i know this man very well and i am close to the family.
all i want to say is that there r 2 sides to every story and knowing this guy i doubt that much of this story is true and even if yes extremely exagerated

 

Let the guy himself comment on this blog so we can be fair and hear (not see) his side of the events.He is a family man,a landlord,and then people tell us he is not all there? It can't be both.

 

first why was she in his houses bathroom and not her own downstairs?

second, above writes is correct. Why not master bath? or if there was none, why not door closed/locked?

third, unless some tramatic happens, why would he be hugging his neighbors kid so often?
- the answer to that is grooming.
he had probably spent years building up and hoping for this moment to go by smoothly, but it didn't.
7 years is much. mandated Therapy would be better.

 

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