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I'm not shocked. I'm not surprised, it's been going on for years, I just don't understand why it's news.

 

can someone please post the story at 11 it sounds juicy!!!

 

really I am shocked it must be antisemitism

 

I WANT TO CRY !!!

 

I assume it's quite rare. Does anyone have an idea of the numbers involved? Is it 10 or 100 people?

 

unfortunately this is a problem with humans as a hole as far back as history has been written just read and you'll see, we have the luxury of not talking about it because its not so comen by us as in the outside world, but the community as a whole is trying to work on it as best as possible,
Y it’s on the news? simply because the organization of self hating Jews that got a clip in the peace wants us to talk about it and maybe they could get a few more losers, and thank u Mr. tender for not missing the opportunity to bash our community,
And a message to that org. and Mr. Tendler we have overcome bigger struggles without you’re help

 

You can find anything anywhere.

The question to ask is if affairs are statistically significant to be called a problem. For example, if out of 100,000 couples, two or three are having affairs, than it is nothing but an anomality.

We need more numerical estimates before we go out and call this a problem in our community. The same is true for child abuse in Yishivot and any other ills in community.

 

y r u shocked u think such things dont happen amongst us jews? we r human just like anyone else. its sad but its reality, face it and help those who need it and lets hope and pray moshiach comes real quick!

 

TO:I WANT TO CRY !!!


I feel the same way-its so sad-crazy-upsetting-im not surprised-we all know about men running to hookers-but this is plain nuts-where are we headed? the chilul hashem is unreal-dont do it with a black hat -payos etc, it makes the rest of us look bad-...-

 

WOW! ("Rabbi") Tendler out of all people, is gonno fix the world!

 

blah, blah, blah, 2 disscusting pigs I mean rel pigs with big apetites like swinging and flirting and sex with a married man/women... OK but why talk to the media about your piggish acts??? you filty pig. that I'll never understand.
YOURS: THE GOLEM

 

If it would've been the every day normal, it wouldn't have been on the news.

 

i will cry with u .... so yossi and leah didnt get enought attention seems from their extramarital affairs that they needed to share it on cbs news..cuz clearly this is the dumbest news theyve spoken about in years.....shame on u ...u need help

 

separating girls and boys is one thing but the extreme that chasidim do to prevent girls and boys from talking...looking at each other and arranging marriages that both the girl and boy dont know anything about one another u blame them for going outside the marriage they dont even love each other! if they would b normal and date in order to get to know each other things like this wouldnt happen hence CHASSIDISH having extra marital affairs... not LITVISH or MODERN ORTHODOX!

 

yossi and leah are LOSERS! this type of news is not to be aired anywhere. Why make more chilul hashems? isnt it enough with the agri processors tragedy? why did they go to CBS and air more? and that idiot Tendler,why doesnt he just keep his mouth shut? and concentrate on Yeshiva University? I never talk about a rabbi this,i know its disrespectful,but he makes me very angry. All he had to do was say no comment,like all the politicians do. he didnt have to comment on it.

 

Anonymous 7:22 PM
You think it's only Tendler... you should see what's going on in Cleveland with the molestation at Telz.

 

what is going on with Telz cleveland? I was seriously thinking of sending my son there for misifta?

 

Tels is an old story...its a known molestation place.

 

out of towner, send your son at your own risk.

 

It's about time the Chassidim (I'm one of 'em) realize that the more we isolate, the more we will look outside. It's NOT NORMAL in this day and age to have 2 complete strangers getting married. This is not Europe early 1900's. The same system cannot apply today no matter how you may try to make it work. There must be a way for young people to make the choice about whom they would like to marry.

 

TO: Annon,November 25, 2008 5:33 PM

for LITVISH or MODERN ORTHODOX! it is not news, because they
commit these sins on a regular basis.
But chasidim, you never here them
commit these sins, burech hashem.

These two Junkys, yossi & leah,
are not chasidish anymore, they became Modern Orthodox,or litvish, to commit the sin.

 

chassidish ways r too strict they should lighten up and if they x like the shmutz go back to europe!

 

No need to get exited here(pardon the pun)Two losers who need attention get on the news,Sweeps month on TV(they need ratings)99.99% of Frum Yidden of all denominations are pure & holy & stay away from this.The Media is Obsessed with the "Ultra Orthodox".They think that they are as pure as the wind driven snow, and whent a anomaly happens its a major story when in realty its a Jew that sinned & needs Teshuva.The Craigslist ad could be fake too & planted there to stir the pot

 

Now if only they told the other true story - the amount of chassidim who frequent prostitutes. That's a whole story in itself. Before I became religious I studied German for six years. I'm sorry to say this, but both of my teachers told stories of how common it was for someone to call and say he was interested in looking for a lesson, and then a chosid would should up with a large amount of money asking that his fantasy with a German woman be fulfilled. I wouldn't even mention what the fantasies were on this site, too disgusting. But this was common practice.

 

There is something called stupid and naive... There is a very big difference

 

In the secular world, something like 50% of married people cheat on their spouses, even though they don't have arranged marriages and choose their spouses themselves.

 

How can u compare us to the secular world cause the reasons we get married are so different from theirs!!!! or values are so different!! u talk so norish!